{"id":42436,"date":"2019-01-12T08:50:46","date_gmt":"2019-01-12T08:50:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marianagurza.ro\/blog\/?p=42436"},"modified":"2019-01-12T08:53:24","modified_gmt":"2019-01-12T08:53:24","slug":"monah-iustin-t-milostenia-ca-puls-al-vietii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marianagurza.ro\/blog\/2019\/01\/12\/monah-iustin-t-milostenia-ca-puls-al-vietii\/","title":{"rendered":"Monah IUSTIN T.: Milostenia ca puls al vie\u0163ii"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Se spune c\u0103 iarna mintea e mai lini\u015ftit\u0103. Mai ales dup\u0103 ce au trecut S\u0103rb\u0103torile. Mai pu\u0163in \u00eempr\u0103\u015ftiat\u0103. \u015ei mai capabil\u0103 pentru exerci\u0163ii suflete\u015fti.
\nIat\u0103 unul, care ar putea s\u0103 ne dea energie pentru restul anului. \u015ei \u2013 de ce nu? \u2013 pentru restul vie\u0163ii…<\/p>\n

\nMilostenia. Care este rolul milosteniei \u00een via\u0163a noastr\u0103? Ce valoare are ea, ce primim \u00een schimbul ei, ajut\u00e2nd oameni care nu ne pot r\u0103spl\u0103ti \u00een vreun fel? Sau care nici nu apuc\u0103 s\u0103 cunoasc\u0103 pe cel ce a f\u0103cut darul.<\/p>\n

\nS-ar p\u0103rea c\u0103 to\u0163i o \u015ftim, dar nu avem r\u0103gazul s\u0103 o formul\u0103m.<\/p>\n

\nCu un fel al milosteniei, cel material, suntem obi\u015fnui\u0163i. A da un ban unui s\u0103rac, a hr\u0103ni un nevoia\u015f, a \u00eengriji un bolnav, a da o hain\u0103 de poman\u0103 \u2013 e cumva de \u00een\u0163eles. Mai exist\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 \u015fi un altfel de milostenie, mai ad\u00e2nc, care \u0163ine de via\u0163a \u00eens\u0103\u015fi. Ceea ce se cheam\u0103 \u201emilostenie sufleteasc\u0103\u201d, cum o numea p\u0103rintele Cleopa. A \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a pe cel ne\u015ftiutor, a m\u00e2ng\u00e2ia pe cel \u00eendurerat de pierderea cuiva, a scoate din singur\u0103tate pe cel singur, a \u00eencuraja pe cel dezn\u0103d\u0103jduit, descurajat de via\u0163\u0103, a alina g\u00e2ndurile negre ale unui bolnav, a c\u00e2nta colinde \u00eentr-un penitenciar etc. Adic\u0103 \u2013 \u00eentr-un fel minunat \u2013 a \u00eencuraja \u015fi a sus\u0163ine via\u0163a \u00een toate formele ei care se zbat, acelea mai slabe \u015fi mai vulnerabile.<\/p>\n

\nDar de ce s\u0103 aju\u0163i fiin\u0163e mai slabe c\u00e2nd via\u0163a ta trebuie s\u0103 fie puternic\u0103, s\u0103 munce\u015fti s\u0103 o sus\u0163ii, s\u0103 o promovezi, \u00eentr-un cuv\u00e2nt \u2013 s\u0103 o afirmi? \u00centr-o logic\u0103 devenit\u0103 foarte familiar\u0103 nou\u0103, de ce s\u0103 sus\u0163ii proiecte de vie\u0163i de \u201enesucces\u201d \u2013 vie\u0163i de s\u0103r\u0103cie, de boal\u0103, de depresie, de b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e sau de singur\u0103tate \u2013 c\u00e2nd ai alte proiecte de succes, alte vie\u0163i drept exemplu, \u015fi, mai ales, propria ta via\u0163\u0103? Pe care-l vezi ca cel mai de succes \u015fi mai meritoriu proiect dintre toate.
\n\u015ei aici ajungem la punctul cel mai ad\u00e2nc al fiin\u0163ei noastre. De ce? De ce s\u0103 la\u015fi vie\u0163ile s\u0103 se zbat\u0103? De ce s\u0103 \u00eencurajezi s\u0103r\u0103cia \u015fi boala? Dac\u0103 o lum\u00e2nare abia mai p\u00e2lp\u00e2ie, de ce s\u0103 n-o stingi? Dac\u0103 a r\u0103mas o frunz\u0103 singur\u0103 \u00eentr-un copac, de ce s\u0103 n-o faci s\u0103 cad\u0103? De ce s\u0103 sus\u0163ii via\u0163a pe muchea ei cea mai fragil\u0103 \u015fi mai vulnerabil\u0103? Nu este o pref\u0103cut\u0103 cruzime?<\/p>\n

\nDin acest punct, nu po\u0163i s\u0103 cote\u015fti dec\u00e2t \u00een dou\u0103 direc\u0163ii.<\/p>\n

\nPo\u0163i s\u0103 cote\u015fti la st\u00e2nga. \u015ei s\u0103 te iei dup\u0103 \u201eumanismul\u201d noii lumi f\u0103r\u0103 Dumnezeu. Suferin\u0163a, s\u0103r\u0103cia, boala, handicapul nu au ce c\u0103uta \u00eentr-o lume viabil\u0103, \u201ede succes\u201d. \u015ei atunci, \u201ealin\u0103m\u201d aceste suferin\u0163e \u00een cel mai \u201euman\u201d mod posibil: eutanasiem b\u0103tr\u00e2nii sau bolnavii, avort\u0103m copii \u201ef\u0103r\u0103 \u015fanse\u201d, pe cei cu sindrom Down sau pe cei care ne complic\u0103 existen\u0163a \u00een oricare alte feluri… R\u0103splata acestui drum la st\u00e2nga, acestei logici, este una teribil\u0103! Ireversibil\u0103. Dar s\u0103 n-o formul\u0103m p\u00e2n\u0103 nu vedem r\u0103splata celuilalt drum…<\/p>\n

\nC\u0103ci, din acela\u015fi punct, putem s\u0103 cotim la dreapta. Spre mila care sus\u0163ine existen\u0163a. \u00cen toate formele ei \u015fi \u2013 mai ales \u2013 \u00een cele mai neajutorate. Spre acea dispozi\u0163ie a inimii cu care Dumnezeu \u00eensu\u015fi creeaz\u0103 \u015fi sus\u0163ine lumea. C\u0103ci nu El a creat un mediu ostil vie\u0163ii, ci excesele \u015fi natura c\u0103zut\u0103 a omului au f\u0103cut-o. Dumnezeu \u00eens\u0103 d\u0103 \u015fanse vie\u0163ii tocmai \u00een acest mediu ostil, oric\u00e2t de ostil. Cum anun\u0163a \u00eentr-un mod minunat proorocul Isaia despre M\u00e2ntuitorul. C\u00e2nd va veni, El \u201etrestie strivit\u0103 nu va fr\u00e2nge \u015fi fe\u015ftil\u0103 fumeg\u00e2nd\u0103 nu va stinge\u201d (Matei 12, 20). Cine putea concepe at\u00e2ta bl\u00e2nde\u0163e, at\u00e2ta ging\u0103\u015fie, tocmai din partea celei mai puternice Fiin\u0163e? A\u015fa \u00een\u0163elegem de ce, \u00een zilele noastre, copii care se zbat s\u0103 se nasc\u0103, cu \u015fanse medicale minime, ajung s\u0103 vad\u0103 lumina vie\u0163ii. Sau de ce unii oameni duc o boal\u0103 cronic\u0103 toat\u0103 via\u0163a, sau un handicap sau o dizabilitate cu care str\u0103bat lumea p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een ultima clip\u0103. \u00cen\u0163elegem astfel de ce trebuie s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u015fi oamenii s\u0103raci, oamenii bolnavi sau singuri. De parc\u0103 le d\u0103 Cineva mereu \u015fanse… Pentru c\u0103 avem un Dumnezeu minunat, care \u201etrestie strivit\u0103 nu va fr\u00e2nge \u015fi fe\u015ftil\u0103 fumeg\u00e2nd\u0103 nu va stinge\u201d. Care sus\u0163ine via\u0163a p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd toate \u015fansele ei au fost actualizate. Sau chiar \u015fi singura: \u015fansa de exista \u015fi de a tr\u0103i, pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt, m\u0103car o singur\u0103 clip\u0103.
\nR\u0103splata acestei cotituri la dreapta este una incredibil\u0103. S\u0103 \u00eencurajezi, chiar \u015fi cu g\u00e2ndul, venirea-limit\u0103 a unui copil pe lume, s\u0103 \u00eent\u0103re\u015fti acel fir de via\u0163\u0103 de care se aga\u0163\u0103 un bolnav, s\u0103 sco\u0163i o \u015fans\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 celui deprimat \u015fi care a epuizat propriile \u015fanse date vie\u0163ii, s\u0103 dai o m\u00e2n\u0103 acelei \u201etrestii strivite\u201d sau \u201efe\u015ftile fumeg\u00e2nde\u201d \u2013 \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 prime\u015fti \u00eenapoi ceva extraordinar. Prime\u015fti \u00eenapoi sentimentul valorii vie\u0163ii. Al oric\u0103rei vie\u0163i, al vie\u0163ii celei mai fragile, \u015fi, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, al vie\u0163ii tale. Care st\u0103 dincolo de reu\u015fita oric\u0103rui proiect, dincolo de bog\u0103\u0163ie sau s\u0103r\u0103cie, de s\u0103n\u0103tate sau boal\u0103, dincolo de orice circumstan\u0163e favorabile sau nefavorabile. Ca fericitul Iov, care a primit lec\u0163ia valorii universale a vie\u0163ii tocmai c\u00e2nd r\u0103m\u0103sese s\u0103rac, bolnav, \u015fi singur. Fiindc\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod minunat \u2013 aparent f\u0103r\u0103 leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu subiectul durerii lui \u2013, Dumnezeu \u00eel \u00eentreab\u0103: \u201eCine are grij\u0103 de m\u00e2ncarea corbului, c\u00e2nd puii lui cronc\u0103nesc la Dumnezeu? \u015etii tu c\u00e2nd nasc caprele s\u0103lbatice? Ai b\u0103gat de seam\u0103 care este vremea cerboaicelor? Numeri tu lunile sarcinii lor \u015fi \u015ftii tu c\u00e2nd le vine ceasul s\u0103 nasc\u0103?\u201d (Iov 38,41; 39, 1-2). A da valoare altor vie\u0163i fragile, mai slabe dec\u00e2t a ta, \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u015fti ca Dumnezeu \u00eensu\u015fi \u2013 care a creat o via\u0163\u0103 mai slab\u0103 dec\u00e2t El \u2013 \u015fi s\u0103 recape\u0163i acel sentiment al valorii \u015fi al puterii adev\u0103rate care vine din ocrotirea vie\u0163ilor altora.<\/strong> \u015ei mai \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i asiguri o b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e lini\u015ftit\u0103. \u015ei un somn u\u015for, c\u00e2nd pui capul pe pern\u0103.<\/p>\n

\nDe cealalt\u0103 parte, alternativa e teribil\u0103. Negarea valorii intrinsece a altor vie\u0163i mai slabe, mai vulnerabile, epurarea lumii de (viitori) copii cu dizabilit\u0103\u0163i, de b\u0103tr\u00e2ni \u015fi de bolnavi, na\u015fte o mo\u015ftenire otr\u0103vit\u0103. Propov\u0103duind \u00eendestul timp c\u0103 via\u0163a \u00een suferin\u0163\u0103 nu are valoare, vei primi \u00eenapoi aceea\u015fi r\u0103splat\u0103 toxic\u0103 \u2013 sentimentul lipsei de valoare, de sens a propriei tale vie\u0163i. Nu va trece mult p\u00e2n\u0103 la prima boal\u0103, prima suferin\u0163\u0103 sau singur\u0103tate, c\u00e2nd vei descoperi, parc\u0103 de nic\u0103ieri, c\u0103 via\u0163a ta nu mai are valoare. Iar banii \u015fi medicamentele nu ne vor mai ajuta cu nimic. Pentru c\u0103 ne-am t\u0103iat pun\u0163ile umane, de la inim\u0103 la inim\u0103, de unde ne-ar fi putut veni valoarea. \u015ei r\u0103m\u00e2nem prad\u0103 singur\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi depresiei terminale, \u015fi unei viitoare b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163i chinuit\u0103 din urm\u0103 de nihilismul tinere\u0163ii ei. De care nu s-a c\u0103it.
\nA\u015fa c\u0103 s\u0103 cotim la dreapta. Spre milostenie. \u015ei nu doar din aceea material\u0103, care e mai u\u015foar\u0103, ci spre aceea sufleteasc\u0103, care presupune schimbarea min\u0163ii. \u015ei a inimii. \u015ei vie\u0163ile s\u0103racilor au valoare. \u015ei vie\u0163ilor bolnavilor au valoare. \u015ei vie\u0163ile copiilor cu dizabilit\u0103\u0163i au valoare. Orice via\u0163\u0103 are o valoare dat\u0103 de Dumnezeu, ne\u015ftirbit\u0103 de fragilitatea ei. Orice via\u0163\u0103 are puls. Oric\u00e2t de slab. \u015ei ori de c\u00e2te ori sim\u0163im acel fior de energie cald\u0103 \u00een noi, acel z\u00e2mbet interior care se treze\u015fte c\u00e2nd ajut\u0103m pe cineva, c\u00e2nd d\u0103m o \u015fans\u0103 cuiva \u2013 acela e \u00eensu\u015fi z\u00e2mbetul Duhului Sf\u00e2nt, care m\u0103rturise\u015fte valoarea vie\u0163ii din noi, ca \u015fi din to\u0163i ceilal\u0163i. Valoare care st\u0103 ascuns\u0103 \u00een cele mai minunate moduri \u00een toate fiin\u0163ele, \u00een \u201etrestiile strivite\u201d ale acestei lumi.<\/p>\n

\n\u015ei ce mod mai bun de-a sc\u0103pa de iadul unei vie\u0163i egoiste dec\u00e2t s\u0103 sim\u0163i c\u0103 ai valoare \u00eentre toate aceste fiin\u0163e?<\/p>\n

\nAvem puls.<\/p>\n

\nDeci… exerci\u0163ii frumoase. O iarn\u0103 lini\u015ftit\u0103. \u015ei o via\u0163\u0103 binecuv\u00e2ntat\u0103!<\/p>\n

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Monah IUSTIN\u00a0 T., <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

11 ianuarie 2019<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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