{"id":5893,"date":"2012-05-17T08:35:35","date_gmt":"2012-05-17T08:35:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.marianagurza.ro\/blog\/?p=5893"},"modified":"2012-05-17T08:36:46","modified_gmt":"2012-05-17T08:36:46","slug":"despre-barbatie-mihai-radulescu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.marianagurza.ro\/blog\/2012\/05\/17\/despre-barbatie-mihai-radulescu\/","title":{"rendered":"“Despre b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ie, Mihai R\u0103dulescu “"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>UNA DINTRE VIRTU\u0162ILE ESEN\u0162IALE pentru dob\u00e2ndirea fericirii este b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia. \u00cencep prin a v\u0103 atrage aten\u0163ia c\u0103 b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia nu trebuie confundat\u0103 cu ceea ce \u00eendeob\u015fte numim: curaj. Socotesc c\u0103 limba noastr\u0103 face o distinc\u0163ie \u00eentre una \u015fi cel\u0103lalt. Curajul este aproape instinctiv; presupune prea pu\u0163in antrenarea con\u015ftiin\u0163ei \u00een actele sale; pe c\u00e2nd, dac\u0103 nu gre\u015fesc, b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia implic\u0103 demnitatea, convingerea, con\u015ftiin\u0163a. \u2018Fii b\u0103rbat!\u2019 nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 doar s\u0103 fii curajos, ci s\u0103 fii curajos ca un om de r\u0103spundere, \u00een joc fiind renumele t\u0103u de fiin\u0163\u0103 superioar\u0103, de st\u0103p\u00e2n pe tine \u00eensu\u0163i \u015fi pe soarta altora. Curajos este b\u0103rbatul care, atacat de ni\u015fte brute, le r\u0103spunde f\u0103r\u0103 team\u0103 \u015fi le ologe\u015fte pe vecie. B\u0103rbat este acela\u015fi, dac\u0103 chibzuie\u015fte s\u0103 fie \u015fi de \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103tur\u0103 reac\u0163ia sa, de \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103tur\u0103 astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t brutele s\u0103 nu-\u015fi repete atacul la\u015f, \u015fi s\u0103 nu transforme brutele \u00een ni\u015fte invalizi r\u0103ma\u015fi la fel de iresponsabili ca \u00eenainte de \u00eent\u00e2lnirea cu el.<\/strong>
\n Dar nu despre acest soi de curaj \u015fi b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ie ne-am adunat \u00een jurul aparatului de radio pentru a vorbi; ci despre adev\u0103rata b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ie, a\u015fa cum reiese ea din urm\u0103toarele aforisme.<\/strong>
\n Voltaire dezv\u0103luie cuprinsul \u00eentreg al no\u0163iunii; el spune: Adev\u0103rata b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ie const\u0103 \u00een a \u015fti s\u0103 suferi<\/em>. Poetul \u015fi dramaturgul Schiller l\u0103mure\u015fte cele preconizate de Voltaire; ad\u0103ug\u0103m zisa lui: Sufletele mari rabd\u0103 \u00een t\u0103cere<\/em>, iar Stammler pare s\u0103 expliciteze totul: Cel mai greu eroism, dar \u015fi cel mai nobil, st\u0103 \u00een a \u00eenv\u0103\u0163a s\u0103-\u0163i potole\u015fti prin tine \u00eensu\u0163i suferin\u0163ele, f\u0103r\u0103 a mai t\u00e2r\u00ee \u00een ele \u015fi al\u0163i oameni<\/em>.<\/strong>
\n \u00cen urm\u0103torul fragment, semnat de Ludovic Hal\u00e9vy, suntem f\u0103cu\u0163i martori at\u00e2t ai curajului c\u00e2t \u015fi ai b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163iei, \u00een naivitatea \u015fi con\u015ftiin\u0163a sa elementar\u0103, dar\u00a0 impresionant\u0103, eroul scrierii ofer\u0103 o frumoas\u0103 pild\u0103 de acceptare a suferin\u0163ei proprii pentru u\u015furarea suferin\u0163ei celorlal\u0163i. Acela care nareaz\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mplarea este un chirurg militar. El \u00ee\u015fi\u00a0 aminte\u015fte cele petrecute \u00eentr-un spital de campanie, la vreme de r\u0103zboi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cloroformul era pe sf\u00e2r\u015fite. Cheltuiam din el c\u00e2t mai pu\u0163in \u015fi c\u0103utam s\u0103-l p\u0103str\u0103m pentru opera\u0163iile grele.<\/em><\/strong>
\n Mi-au adus un soldat \u2013 unul din grenadierii de gard\u0103. M\u00e2na dreapt\u0103 \u00eei fusese zdrobit\u0103 de o sf\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103tur\u0103 de ghiulea. Trebuia s\u0103-i scot din \u00eencheietur\u0103 degetul cel mic. Opera\u0163ia nu era grea, nici primejdioas\u0103; dar era foarte dureroas\u0103 \u015fi \u00eenceat\u0103. \u00cei spusei soldatului:<\/em><\/strong>
\n – Trebuie s\u0103-\u0163i scot degetul cel mic.<\/em><\/strong>
\n – Bine, r\u0103spunse el lini\u015ftit. Scoate\u0163i-l.<\/em><\/strong>
\n – S\u0103 te adorm?<\/em><\/strong>
\n – E grea opera\u0163ia?<\/em><\/strong>
\n – Are s\u0103 te doar\u0103, dar nu-i nici un pericol.<\/em><\/strong>
\n – Nu-i nimic. Dac\u0103 o s\u0103 m\u0103 doar\u0103 r\u0103u, mai bine\u2026<\/em><\/strong>
\n – Dar nu prea mai avem cloroform.<\/em><\/strong>
\n – Cloroformul e doctoria care te adoarme?<\/em><\/strong>
\n – Da.<\/em><\/strong>
\n – A, \u00een\u0163eleg\u2026 vre\u0163i s\u0103 p\u0103stra\u0163i cloroformul cela pentru ceva mai \u00eensemnat dec\u00e2t degetul meu cel mic; pentru piciorul sau pentru coapsa vreunui camarad?<\/em><\/strong>
\n – Da, chiar a\u015fa.<\/em><\/strong>
\n – Bine\u2026 ave\u0163i dreptate. Nu m\u0103 adormi\u0163i, dar haide, repede, repede.<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00ce\u015fi ghemui batista \u00een gur\u0103, \u00eentre din\u0163i. Era alb ca h\u00e2rtia. Sudoarea i se scurgea de pe frunte \u00een pic\u0103turi mari; dar n-a f\u0103cut o mi\u015fcare, nu s-a pl\u00e2ns, n-a scos un \u0163ip\u0103t. Dup\u0103 ce fu gata, \u00eel l\u0103udai pentru curajul pe care \u00eel ar\u0103tase.<\/em><\/strong>
\n – De! spuse el; doar trebuie s\u0103 se ajute bie\u0163ii oameni \u00eentre ei!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Pentru Doamna de Maintenon este nevoie de curaj \u00een tot felul de lucruri mici ce ne revin a f\u0103ptui, pentru care, \u00een genere, nu credem c\u0103 avem nevoie de curaj; \u015fi nu gre\u015fe\u015fte. S\u0103-i d\u0103m ascultare c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u015fi dezvolt\u0103 g\u00e2ndurile cu privire la \u2018lipsa de curaj\u2019.<\/strong>
\n Numesc lips\u0103 de curaj<\/em>, spune ea, acea susceptibilitate \u00een fa\u0163a oric\u0103rui lucru care \u0163i s-ar spune; deprimarea care \u00eei urmeaz\u0103; dorin\u0163a de a fi \u00eentruna c\u0103utat, de a fi totdeauna r\u0103spl\u0103tit c\u00e2nd ai s\u0103v\u00e2r\u015fit cea mai mic\u0103 parte din ce erai dator s\u0103 faci; dorin\u0163a de a fi v\u0103zut c\u00e2nd \u00eendepline\u015fti un lucru l\u0103udabil; de a-\u0163i fi toate pe plac, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te ostene\u015fti; am\u0103r\u0103ciunea c\u00e2nd vezi c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103-\u0163i \u00eendrep\u0163i cusururile. Cred c\u0103 toate acestea fac parte din lipsa de curaj sufletesc.<\/em><\/strong>
\n C\u00e2t prive\u015fte pe cel trupesc \u2013 un semn al lipsei lui este acea dorin\u0163\u0103 de a avea totul de-a gata, care te-ar face s\u0103 inventezi ma\u015fini ce \u0163i-ar aduce toate lucrurile la picioare, ca s\u0103 nu mai ai nevoie s\u0103 \u00eentinzi m\u00e2na s\u0103 le iei; acea spaim\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163a celei mai mici nepl\u0103ceri, frica de v\u00e2nt, de frig, de fum, de praf, de mirosul ur\u00e2t \u2013 care te face s\u0103 te str\u00e2mbi ca \u015fi cum via\u0163a \u00eentreag\u0103 ar fi nimicit\u0103; \u2013 acea \u00eencetineal\u0103 \u00een lucru \u2013 pe care nu-l faci dec\u00e2t silit \u015fi \u00een care nu-\u0163i arde s\u0103 ai vreun spor, acea nep\u0103sare c\u00e2nd e vorba s\u0103 faci bine ceea ce faci; teama de a fi certat, care e singurul lucru ce te pune \u00een mi\u015fcare\u2026 \u00eentov\u0103r\u0103\u015firea cu oameni cari nu te las\u0103 s\u0103 munce\u015fti cum trebuie; ne\u00eemplinirea cum trebuie a unui lucru care \u0163i s-a \u00eencredin\u0163at; ner\u0103bdarea care te \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103 a\u015ftep\u0163i lini\u015ftit un lucru.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Cele ce am citit \u00eempreun\u0103 surprind, parc\u0103, o fa\u0163et\u0103 a curajului la care nu cuget\u0103m. Nu curajul\u00a0 de a lupta fizic, ci curajul de a lupta pe plan moral \u2013 ceea ce cu siguran\u0163\u0103 mai bine este acoperit de substantivul: b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ie. A avea t\u0103ria s\u0103 \u00eenfrun\u0163i via\u0163a, \u00eencep\u00e2nd cu cele mai mici neajunsuri ale ei, precum trezitul devreme, p\u0103strarea cump\u0103t\u0103rii \u00een toate, apucatul de munc\u0103 de cum\u00a0 ne de\u015ftept\u0103m, \u00eencr\u00e2ncenarea de a duce orice\u00a0 activitate la cap\u0103t \u015fi de a o s\u0103v\u00e2r\u015fi tinz\u00e2nd c\u0103tre perfec\u0163iune, t\u0103ria de a ne confrunta cu p\u0103rerile oamenilor, c\u00e2nd suntem siguri c\u0103 dreptatea noi suntem\u00a0 aceia care o de\u0163inem, armonizarea \u00eenclin\u0103rilor noastre cu cele ce ne poate oferi clima, situa\u0163ia noatr\u0103 \u00een societate, s\u0103n\u0103tatea personal\u0103, familia \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe. \u015ei, mai cu osebire, \u00een\u0163elepciunea de a nu ne pl\u00e2nge \u00eentruna, ostenind astfel prieteniile \u015fi iubirea ce ne sunt d\u0103ruite, precum \u015fi vitejia de a suferi bolile f\u0103r\u0103 cr\u00e2cnire, ca \u015fi celelalte suferin\u0163e fizice \u015fi morale. S\u0103 nu ne num\u0103r\u0103m printre aceia pentru care via\u0163a, de departe, e trandafir, iar de aproape bor\u015f cu \u015ftir. Dimpotriv\u0103, pentru dreptul t\u0103u la b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ie, s\u0103 te prinzi de piept cu Dumnezeu, cum zice rom\u00e2nul, c\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ie e\u015fti o c\u00e2rp\u0103 \u015fi nimica nu pre\u0163uie\u015fti\u2026 Pentru antici, cei \u00eendrazne\u0163i sunt ne\u00eencetat \u00eenso\u0163i\u0163i de noroc \u015fi toate le izbutesc. Virgiliu a scris-o \u00een ENEIDA sa: Audaces fortuna luvat<\/em> \u2013 pe cei \u00eendr\u0103zne\u0163i \u00eei ajut\u0103 norocul. Eu a\u015f ad\u0103uga c\u0103, dac\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103zne\u015fti, norocul \u0163i-l faci singur (desigur, dac\u0103-\u0163i st\u0103 Dumnezeu aproape\u2026).<\/strong>
\n Poetul N. Davidescu a surprins cu mare subtilitate pierderea acestui curaj necesar zi de zi, pomenit de Doamna de Maintenon, curajul necesar nu pentru a \u00eenfrunta vr\u0103jma\u015fi, nu pentru a cuceri locuri de frunte \u00een societate, nu pentru a-\u0163i dep\u0103\u015fi contemporanii \u00een descoperiri, \u00een realiz\u0103ri, \u00een participarea creatoare la existen\u0163a comun\u0103, ci necesar pentru a s\u0103v\u00e2r\u015fi gesturile uzuale ale vie\u0163ii. O atare lips\u0103 de curaj te face s\u0103 preferi a nu mai ie\u015fi din cas\u0103, din, cum scrie el:<\/strong>
\n Cavourile-acestea-anticipate,<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00cen care ne-nv\u0103\u0163\u0103m pe nesim\u0163ite<\/em><\/strong>
\n Cu a mor\u0163ii ve\u015fnic\u0103 banalitate,<\/em><\/strong>
\n preferi, spuneam, a nu mai vizita \u015fi a nu mai primi pe nimeni, a c\u0103uta vegetarea, a te preschimba \u00eencetul cu \u00eencetul \u00een plant\u0103, ori \u00een animal ce hiberneaz\u0103, fugind de cerin\u0163ele de perpetu\u0103 mi\u015fcare ale vie\u0163ii umane.<\/strong>
\n S\u0103 citim \u00eempreun\u0103 poema sa:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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UMBRA CAMERILOR<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sunt camere de-acelea ce sunt pline<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 De noi, \u015fi-n care sufletele noastre<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Se-mpr\u0103\u015ftie t\u0103cute \u015fi senine<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u015ei se deschid ca florile \u00een glastre,<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00cen mijlocul t\u0103cerii lor depline.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00cen draperia mobilelor grele<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 De pulberea nostalgicelor vise,<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u015ei-n galbenul masivelor perdele<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 De-a pururea u\u015for \u00eentredeschise,<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ne risipim ca ni\u015fte vechi dantele.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 De-aici, al nostru suflet, c\u00e2nd se-adun\u0103<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Se furi\u015feaz\u0103, pentru-nt\u00e2ia oar\u0103<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Prin draperii, discret, \u015fi \u00eempreun\u0103<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00cen lene\u015fele nop\u0163i de prim\u0103var\u0103<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Cu str\u0103lucirea razelor de lun\u0103.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Apoi nimic; pu\u0163in\u0103 poezie,<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00cenchis\u0103-n ritmuri de epitalame,<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Se-mpr\u0103\u015ftie pe-a umbrei tr\u00e2nd\u0103vie<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u015ei caut\u0103 ca, pe minore game,<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 S\u0103 pr\u0103fueasc\u0103 tot ce-a fost s\u0103 fie.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Viea\u0163a preget\u0103 de-a mai str\u0103bate<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Cu fr\u0103m\u00e2nt\u0103rile-i necontenite,<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Cavourile-acestea-anticipate,<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00cen care ne-v\u0103\u0163\u0103m pe nesim\u0163ite<\/em><\/strong>
\n \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Cu a mor\u0163ii ve\u015fnic\u0103 banalitate.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Poate c\u0103 b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia cea mai mare \u00ee\u0163i trebuie pentru a-\u0163i recunoa\u015fte limitele \u015fi neputin\u0163ele, cu sinceritate, \u00een termeni cre\u015ftine\u015fti, b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia cea mai mare este s\u0103 fii smerit \u00een toate, s\u0103 te recuno\u015fti s\u0103rac cu duhul, treab\u0103 foarte grea, de voim s-o facem cu toat\u0103 onestitatea, pentru c\u0103 omul este fiin\u0163\u0103 orgolioas\u0103, ba \u015fi mai r\u0103u, vanitoas\u0103. Mult curaj \u00ee\u0163i trebuie s\u0103 lup\u0163i cu tine, dar \u015fi mai mult pentru a-l lua pe Dumnezeu drept \u0163int\u0103 ne\u00eencetat\u0103, recunosc\u00e2nd c\u0103 nici m\u0103car nu e\u015fti \u00een stare s\u0103 te rogi cum\u00a0 se cuvine; iar dup\u0103 aceast\u0103 m\u0103rturisire, curajul de a trece la fapta Rug\u0103ciunii.<\/strong>
\n Da\u0163i ascultare lui Samuel Smiles, acest mare g\u00e2nditor asupra caracterului: el pune chestiunea \u00een termeni neezitan\u0163i: B\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia ce se traduce prin eforturi t\u0103cute, care \u00eendr\u0103zne\u015fte s\u0103 sufere toate \u015fi s\u0103 le suporte din dragoste pentru adev\u0103r \u015fi datorie, este mai eroic\u0103 dec\u00e2t faptele m\u0103re\u0163e ale curajului fizic, sau dec\u00e2t acelea ce sunt recompensate prin onoruri \u015fi titluri, ori dec\u00e2t laurii adesea muia\u0163i \u00een s\u00e2nge.<\/em><\/strong>
\n Curajul moral este acela ce caracterizeaz\u0103 veritabila m\u0103re\u0163ie a b\u0103rbatului \u015fi a femeii; b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia de a gr\u0103i adev\u0103rul; de a fi drept \u015fi cinstit; b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia de a rezista ispitei \u015fi de a-\u0163i face datoria. B\u0103rbatul \u015fi femeia, dac\u0103 nu posed\u0103 aceast\u0103 virtute, nu pot fi siguri c\u0103 le pot p\u0103stra pe celelalte.<\/em><\/strong>
\n Acela\u015fi psiholog britanic pune accentul pe zona cea mai indicat\u0103 pentru \u00eent\u0103rirea b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163iei, deoarece aci, \u00een creuzetul afirm\u0103rii personalit\u0103\u0163ii \u2013 c\u0103ci la acea misterioas\u0103 c\u0103mar\u0103 l\u0103untric\u0103 m\u0103 refer \u2013 dac\u0103 nu participi cu toate for\u0163ele tale, ri\u015fti s\u0103 dob\u00e2nde\u015fti un monstru ce-\u0163i poart\u0103 numele \u015fi chipul, dar se exprim\u0103 cu o mie de guri, acelea ale semenilor s\u0103i, \u015fi-i lipse\u015fte un mijloc de a se exprima pe sine. Termenii lui Smiles sunt: Calitatea de a fi \u00eentreprinz\u0103tor, a intelectului, constituie una dintre condi\u0163iile vitale ale independen\u0163ei caracterului. Este necesar ca omul s\u0103 aib\u0103 b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia de a fi el \u00eensu\u015fi \u015fi nu umbra sau ecoul altcuiva. Trebuie ca el s\u0103-\u015fi exerseze propriile facult\u0103\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi exprime sim\u0163\u0103mintele proprii. Dator\u0103m s\u0103 aducem \u00een discu\u0163ie opiniile noastre \u015fi s\u0103 ne form\u0103m convingeri. S-a spus c\u0103 acela care nu \u00eendr\u0103zne\u015fte s\u0103 aibe o opinie este un\u00a0 la\u015f; c\u0103 acela care nu vrea s-o aib\u0103 de bun\u0103 seam\u0103 este un lene\u015f; iar acela care n-o poate avea, f\u0103r\u0103 doar \u015fi poate\u00a0 e un prost.<\/em><\/strong>
\n Privi\u0163i \u00een urma dumneavoastr\u0103 la anii regimului comunist, de care abia a sc\u0103pat \u0163ara noastr\u0103: cel mai mare r\u0103u pe care ni l-a f\u0103cut dictatura este acela de a ne fi ascuns c\u00e2te suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 f\u0103ptuim de unii singuri, ce curaj f\u0103r\u0103 seam\u0103n st\u0103 \u00eengropat \u00een inimile fiec\u0103rui copil, adolescent \u015fi ins matur din neamul nostru, cum oricare dintre noi \u00ee\u015fi poate \u00eendemna via\u0163a \u00eentr-o curs\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 istovire \u00eendreptat\u0103 c\u0103tre zenit. Privi\u0163i \u00een jurul dumneavoastr\u0103: pretutindeni se repar\u0103, se \u00eentregesc, se \u00eenfrumuse\u0163eaz\u0103 case particulare existente, c\u00e2nd nu se cl\u0103desc altele noi. Se deschid dughene pe fiece strad\u0103, dac\u0103 nu magazine ultraluxoase. Mici ateliere dau un rost nou pivni\u0163elor \u015fi cur\u0163ilor, iar fabricile se \u00eencropesc \u015fi ele cum pot. Au ap\u0103rut universit\u0103\u0163i particulare puzderie, noi posturi de radio \u015fi televiziune, gazete c\u00e2te nu \u015fi-a putut nimeni \u00eenchipui c\u0103 vor fi citite, edituri de asemeni. Curajul rom\u00e2nului nu \u00eeng\u0103duie \u00eendoial\u0103. Fiecare om se ia la \u00eentrecere cu to\u0163i, dar \u015fi cu sine \u00eensu\u015fi. Or, comuismul a lovit capul ce \u00eendr\u0103znea s\u0103 se sumeat\u0103 pentru a izbuti ceva personal; iar dac\u0103 nu l-a izbit, l-a umilit \u015fi i-a furat ideile \u015fi munca. Scriai o carte, f\u0103ceai o cercetare \u015ftiin\u0163ific\u0103, o inven\u0163ie? O semnau to\u0163i \u015fefii t\u0103i direc\u0163i \u015fi indirec\u0163i, \u00eenaintea ta, \u015fi tu erai socotit un fericit dac\u0103 ap\u0103rea \u015fi numele t\u0103u printre ale autorilor, nu rareori cu studiile f\u0103cute la locul de produc\u0163ie, adic\u0103 urm\u00e2nd cursuri f\u0103r\u0103 frecven\u0163\u0103, absolvite cu plocoane sau amenin\u0163\u0103ri. Erai at\u00e2t de bun \u00een munca ta \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 prime\u015fti o r\u0103splat\u0103 interna\u0163ional\u0103, ori o burs\u0103 de studiu? Aceia\u015fi profitori \u015fi plo\u015fni\u0163e ale roadelor intelectuale se bucurau de pe urma trudei tale. Se comunica savan\u0163ilor, rectorilor sau oricui te aprecia c\u0103 erai bolnav \u015fi nu puteai p\u0103r\u0103si \u0163ara, iar parazi\u0163ii plecau \u00een locul t\u0103u, f\u0103c\u00e2nd poporul de ru\u015fine cu lipsa lor de carte, de preg\u0103tire \u015fi de personalitate. Rom\u00e2nul n-a \u015ftiut c\u00e2te poate cuceri, realiza, dob\u00e2ndi; abia acum deschide ochii asupra vie\u0163ii. Rom\u00e2nul n-a avut libertatea de a fi el \u00eensu\u015fi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ave\u0163i ast\u0103zi b\u0103rb\u0103\u0163ia s\u0103 fi\u0163i voi \u00een\u015fiv\u0103!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mihai\u00a0R\u0103dulescu<\/em> <\/strong><\/p>\n

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